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Clearing out for Christmas

By Victoria Scanlan Stefanakos
December 22, 2008
File under: Family Time, Toys, holidays

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Gingerbread baked? Check. Cards mailed? Check. Presents wrapped? Almost… Now, all that’s left to do in preparation for the magic of Christmas is to make room for it. Sharing what toys, clothes or other belongings you no longer need or love is an easy way to make your holiday more sustainable—in every way. Imagine your little ones’ joy to find room in your living room to actually play with the wooden kitchen they’ve been pining over for more than a year. That means less for you to trip over, too.

In their utterly useful little book, Green Christmas, Jennifer Basye Sander, Peter Sander, and Anne Basye, reminded me of a few great goals for gift-giving (and life, now that I think of it). Our family already strives to give fewer, more wonderful toys each year. They work with things my boys cherish, and they should last for years. And by giving more of ourselves, we hope we’re building memories instead of mountains of stuff. Last of all, we purge.

We use a short checklist to decide what stays and what goes. You may have different guidelines, depending on your space and tolerance for clutter. But if you want your enemies to prune your roses, as a wise old gardener once told me, know that your children need you to help them pare down their toy box. Remind them that they’re not losing old friends but introducing them to new playmates, who can’t wait to meet them! Ask yourself:

-Is the toy special to them in some way?
-Did it belong to Mama or Papa when they were little?
-Does it make them smile?
-Does it encourage creative, peaceful play?

If the answer is yes to any or all of the above, it’s worth keeping (or storing for future generations). If not, it goes in the “give” pile. As the pile of “gifts” grows, so does their delight in knowing how much joy they can share with other little ones. Last of all, help your children hand over their donations to a volunteer at your local charity—and watch them stand a bit taller after their good and generous gesture.

As a Mama modeling sustainability to my boys, handing things on is as essential as accepting gifts when they come our way. Not keeping what we don’t need is a value worth teaching. It reinforces a cycle of life, of abundance, of joy.

May all of your holidays be filled with all of those, aplenty.

 
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